For Women Only - by Shaunti Feldhahn

I recommend this book to most girls in a relationship. Although this book is mainly aimed at married couples, I personally think non-married girls can get alot of great insight from it as well. The major point of the book is that women need to respect their men. We should respect his decisions and opinions. Even if he is lost while driving somewhere, not wanting to ask for directions, a woman should respect that decision and trust him to find the right way there. She should NEVER bad talk him in public, whether he is around her or not. She should praise him for the good things he does [in public & in private] & only tell him the things that bother her in private. RESPECTING THE MAN IS EQUAL TO A WOMAN FEELING LOVED IN A RELATIONSHIP. She needs to feel loved, he needs to feel respected. Shaunti Feldhahn writes, "crying is often a woman's response to feeling unloved, and anger is often a man's response to feeling disrespected".

Other topics covered in the book: Men feel the need to be the providers; Men need to feel desired & wanted in bed, so don't use sex against him; Men feel insecure & need the wife's support; Men are visual compared to women; Men enjoy romance but don't always know how to go about it; Men care about their woman's appearance, not that they want her to be perfect, but are satisfied in knowing that she cares about her own health & appearance too and presents herself well.

There is an equivalent of this book for men entitled for men only.

For more information, go to www.4-womenonly.com